Jiang Jiuniang can actually understand her thoughts. Although the whole family has improved greatly now, she still feels that she comes from the countryside and has a little inferiority. This kind of inferiority cannot be eliminated in a short time. It can only be eliminated in a long period of time. Slowly relieved over time.
Moreover, the eldest son does have heavier responsibilities, and being the head of the house is not that easy. Not every family is as simple as the Lu family. If Youya doesn't have that intention, she can't force others to do anything.
"You have thought well. As long as you are the legitimate son, your status will not be much different. In addition, you don't have to bear the pressure that only the eldest son has. You, the young couple, can live your own little life in peace and contentment. . Wait, I will send someone to check the details of these companies, and we will tell you what happens next."
Jiang Jiuniang touched her head and prepared to take this list to Sun and Qin. Take a look.
Especially Qin, she is a mother, so this kind of thing cannot be passed over her.
Jiang Jiuniang went to the Sun family’s yard. Both the Yu family and the Qin family had arrived here early. When they saw her, they were very excited and asked: "How is it? Is there anything that girl likes?" "?"
Jiang Jiuniang handed over the list: "I have chosen these for now. I have sent people to check their backgrounds. Family background and other things are secondary. The main thing is that the family background is simple and the backyard is clean. , We girls from the Lu family cannot tolerate such cowardice."
Although she didn't say it explicitly, anyone who wants to marry a girl from the Lu family must not have concubines, for no other reason. Just because she is a modern person and can't stand these three wives and four concubines, she naturally doesn't want to watch the little girl grow up and go to her husband's house and suffer.
You need to make this clear to the other party when negotiating later. If you can accept it, get married. If you can't accept it, then find another one.
Men with two legs are still easy to find.
No matter how bad it is, it’s the same as finding a scholar from a poor background. Anyway, the Lu family can afford it.
"The third brother and sister are right. The girls in our family have been loved and loved since childhood. They have never suffered any grievances since childhood. It makes no sense for them to be bullied when they grow up and get married. With this background The investigation needs to be more careful."
Ms. Qin nodded repeatedly and said with a smile: "Thank you so much, my third brother and sister. With your help, I can rest assured."
She doesn’t know those people in the court, and people may not necessarily give her face when she comes forward. But it’s different when Jiang Jiuniang comes forward. Many people will give her face and are willing to marry the Lu family, and Youya will have more choices.
"It's okay, I watched Youya grow up, so I naturally hope she can marry into a good family."
Jiang Jiuniang couldn't help but sigh in her heart, this person is indeed It's all selfish. She can't bear to let her family membersThe girls are getting married, and they even want all of them to find husbands, so that the family does not have to be separated.
But this is obviously impossible, so we can only think about it.
Just at this time, Leizi came, bowed to all the elders present, and then asked Jiang Jiuniang: "Third Aunt, is there a scholar named Yang Fei on Youyou's list? "
Jiang Jiuniang had just read the list and her memory was still fresh in her mind. She nodded and said, "Yes, why?"
She thought Leizi was going to say that Yang Fei was not a good match. , don’t think about it. Unexpectedly, Lei Zi introduced him immediately: "This Yang Fei is the great nephew of the Imperial Academy. His family has been clean for generations, and he and I are classmates and friends..."
Balabala talked a lot and told all the details about Yang Fei.
Hearing that Yang Fei’s father only had one wife and that there were no warblers in his own backyard, several people present instantly had a good impression of Yang Fei.
Mrs. Sun said: "In this way, this young master's conditions are quite good, but I don't know what other people think of him at home. If he wants to marry us, he has to find someone to inquire in private. ."
"She should be willing. These are what he told me personally today. He also said that his mother has asked him to have more contact with me from the beginning, hoping to marry our Lu family. The girl."
Leizi took the words and continued: "Although I have a good relationship with Yang Fei in private, when it involves my sister's marriage, I think we should check it carefully. , You can’t just listen to his side of the story, and it will delay your sister’s life.”
If this is really the case, he, as an older brother, will feel uneasy for the rest of his life.
"I think Leizi is right. Although Young Master Yang is full of sincerity, we still have to find out. It is about Youya's life, so we must not be hasty."
Mrs. Yu also spoke. Although she was convinced by the conditions Lei Zi said and felt that the Yang family was a good place to end up, she could not make a decision easily.
"Okay, anyway, I have sent people to check, and the results will be available soon. Then we will ask Youya Tou what she means. If both parties have no objections, we can let the Yang family I came to propose marriage."
Jiang Jiuniang was still somewhat impressed by the imperial wine ceremony. He was a very interesting little old man who was also very good to dogs, and the Yang family had never followed him in the court. The Lu family has been against each other before, there is no hatred, and they get along well. They are still very good as in-laws.
The reason why things have become so simple is because Yang Fei is a smart guy. He knows the requirements of the Lu family and can basically do it, and he does it on his own initiative. He is very popular. The Lu family is also easy-going, so they hit it off a little bit.the meaning of.
Everyone was very happy, but they didn’t tell Youya the news for the time being. They planned to wait until the Yang family’s background was carefully investigated, otherwise there would be no point in knowing it in advance.
The first thing Yang Fei did after returning home was to talk to his mother about it. Mrs. Yang Bai was a relatively cheerful woman. When her son told her about the marriage of the Lu family girl, she immediately clapped her hands and said : "Good guy, luckily I let you deal with Mr. Lu family in advance, otherwise how could you know about this in advance! Since the Lu family is interested, we have to prepare the things that need to be prepared. Preparing in advance is always more sincere than cramming. Much more."
As Bai Shi said that, she arranged for the maids around her to prepare. Yang Fei was a little anxious and shouted: "Mother, don't you go to the matchmaker first? You haven't even written these horoscopes yet. Well, why are you going to prepare things!"
He felt that his mother must be so happy that she was doing things confusingly.
"Hai, since you have told Young Master Lu, he will definitely tell the elders in the family. By now, he may have found someone to investigate our family's background. Let's start now. Be prepared, wait for others to find out, reveal your intention, and then invite the matchmaker to your door with the gifts prepared in advance. Wouldn't this be one step faster than others?"
Bai Shi was complacent, I feel like I'm really prescient.
When I told my son that I wanted to find a girl from the Lu family as my daughter-in-law, my son dismissed it. But now that boy is more anxious than anyone else. What does this mean?
It shows that she has good taste!