This is the most realistic and effective method.

Nowadays, every family is reluctant to raise a daughter well, because they think that when they grow up, they will marry someone, and the person they marry will be someone from another family. There is really no need to spend money to train them. After all, the family does not have that kind of money.

But now Jiang Jiuniang has directly opened up their new ideas. Raising her daughter well will not only give her a good reputation, but she will also be able to marry into a family with better conditions in the future, and the bride price will also be higher.

If the daughter can be raised well and has a good reputation, it will be much easier for the boy in the family to talk about his wife in the future.

This is a good idea once and for all!

Furthermore, what Jiang Jiuniang said is reasonable. The most caring thing is the daughter. In the future, she will have a daughter to remember her when she gets older. She seems to be a pretty good person.

Several people present were immediately moved, but there were also some who were unmoved. Jiang Jiuniang couldn't control so much. She had reminded them so much anyway, and it was up to them whether they wanted to or not.

At this time, a person next to me said: "I think what Mrs. Lu said is very reasonable. Just like the little girl from Sister-in-law Zhang's family, isn't she working as an accountant with her master in the city? It's such a good life. But it’s still behind! We women are not necessarily worse than men!”

“Oh, that’s true! I’ll go to the city another day to see if there are any shops recruiting female workers. I’ll send my girl there too, it’s good to learn something from her and gain some experience!”

“This is good! Let’s make an appointment to go and see it together then!”

　　…

　Everyone seems very interested. Although it is not necessary to send a girl to study, learning a skill is also the foundation of a career. She will be taken more seriously when she goes to her husband’s family in the future.

They are just ordinary people. They don’t pay attention to the saying from wealthy families that women cannot be exposed to the public. As long as they can make money and support their families, that’s fine!

At this time, an elderly woman said: "The girls at home have gone out, who will do the housework? Is it possible that the men have to do the housework when they come back from the fields?" What happened? Then who is in charge of this family?"

Jiang Jiuniang knew that there would be such a person, and said with a smile: "Whoever is free will do the things at home. They are all members of the family. There is no need to make such a clear distinction. If the family unites and works together, the life will get better and better."

"Our family has set up several special gatherings in the village over there in Jingzhou. In the female worker’s workshop, the men in the family took the initiative to take over the work. In the morning, they fed the chickens and ducks at home and then went to work in the fields. It was their own fields anyway, so it didn’t hurt to go a little later.”

"Whoever comes home first in the evening will cook first, and those who come home later will eat as they please.Wash the dishes and don't worry about it so much. This can also improve our women's status in the family. Our parents-in-law will like it and our husband will be friendly. What's wrong with it? ”

She spoke in a gentle and gentle manner, without any personal intention. People felt that she was speaking from the bottom of her heart. After all, the life her family is living now is the best proof.

　“Yes, yes, I think Mrs. Lu is right! General Lu is such a majestic general outside. When he comes home, he still cooks for Mrs. Lu. What General Lu can do, why can’t the men in our family do it? We should learn from the Lu family, so that our lives will become easier! ”

As everyone said this, the woman who just spoke suddenly had nothing to say, but she still obviously didn’t agree, and she got up and left after a while.

Jiang Jiuniang didn't mind and continued to joke with others.

Although everyone didn't say anything more, they made up their minds. After returning, they told the boss this point of view, saying that Lu My wife taught me, so that my children can become more talented!

Although it is unkind to let Mrs. Lu take the blame, it is only in this way that their heads can listen.

After all, the general The young master in our family washes and cooks every day. Are children from poor families more valuable than the young master?

Is there anything that cannot be done?

Finished When Niu came home, Jiang Jiu was in a good mood. When the dog saw her coming back, he quickly brought out the washed fruits and said, "Mom, the meal is not ready yet, let's eat some fruits to cushion our stomach. "

Jiang Jiuniang nodded and said: "Don't worry, we will eat later today and wait for your father. ”

　“Okay. ”

The dog didn’t ask his father if he would really come back for dinner, but his mother said so, so he did it.

Jiang Jiuniang sat in the yard eating, The dog was practicing martial arts next to him, and he could hear his mother's orders at any time.

Jiang Jiuniang felt warm in her heart when she saw her son practicing martial arts at a place that was convenient for her. She couldn't help but think about bragging with those women today. The resident asked: "Son, if you go out these days, will the children in the village laugh at you for being a boy who washes and cooks at home every day? ”

The dog does not always do things at home. When he has nothing to do, he also goes out to play with the children in the village. Although he is a noble young master now, he does not have the temper of a young master at all. Everyone is happy to take him.

"No," the dog shook his head, "They will be curious why I do everything at home. I told them it's because my father is not at home. , it was very difficult for my mother to be pregnant and she just needed my care. I even told them that I would take care of her.Do more for your mother and protect your older sisters at home. This is what a man should do. "

After saying that, he looked at Jiang Jiu Niang showing a row of small white teeth: "Mother, do you think what I said is right? ”

“That’s so right! "

Jiang Jiuniang gave him a thumbs up without hesitation and praised: "You are right. You have read a lot of books and understand a lot of truths, which you need to use at these times. People in the village tend to favor boys over girls. If you subtly correct the thoughts of these children and let them try to be kind to their mothers and sisters at home, you are already great. "

"Also, if they ask you for advice, you can tell them what you know. Many of them don't have the opportunity to go to school, and the knowledge they learn is also very one-sided. You can take advantage of it. At this time, teach them more correct concepts. Whether it is useful or not is beyond our control. ”

Jiang Jiuniang knows that there is not much she can do, but this can be regarded as penetrating some ideas of gender equality into the lives of these people. When they want to bully the women in the family, they can think of this time. What they said.

“Mother, I know. "

Gou'er nodded. During the time when he was out with his parents, he saw many people and things, and finally understood why his mother always insisted on doing something for women in this era.

In poor families, some girls are abandoned at birth, some sell their daughters to rich people as maids, some to rich old men as concubines, and some even sell them to brothels.

Women have a bad fate. They don’t get preferential treatment at home, let alone what will be their fate after being sold?

It is because of this that Gouer has been thinking about what if If my mother could give birth to a little sister, he would definitely hold her in his hands and love her so that no one would dare to bully her.