Gou'er and Xiao Shizi listened carefully, and then unanimously expressed that they would be as powerful as them in the future.
He Jiuniang took the opportunity to teach: "Practice martial arts and study are the results accumulated over time. Don't rush for quick success, put aside the impetuousness in your heart, and learn slowly. You are still young and have a lot of time. There is no need to If you are anxious to prove yourself or compare with others, you have to believe that if you work hard, you will be excellent. As for the results, let time prove it."
She found that the dog has been After winning several battles with others, he felt a little proud and eager for quick success. But fortunately, he had a good mentality. When he met a more powerful master, he was excited instead of frustrated. He just wanted to become more powerful. .
But at his age, it is already great to have the current achievements. As a mother, He Jiuniang does not want her son to become a tool that only knows how to study and practice martial arts. He is still so young and completely You can be an ordinary kid and enjoy your childhood to the fullest.
I don’t know how Gou’er felt after hearing these words, but the young prince was quite shocked after hearing this. This was the first time he saw parents who did not force their children to grow up and become excellent. .
The education he received since he was a child is to let him study hard and practice martial arts, so that he can become useful in the future and not be laughed at. Even his father and mother concubines think so. Because he is the eldest son, he has a heavy responsibility on his shoulders, and his status does not allow him to grow up.
But I didn’t expect that the dog’s parents had always taught him this way, but even so, the dog still grew up so well. Why is this?
Seeing his worried look, He Jiuniang guessed something, and then said to him: "The young prince is the same, never care about the outcome of things, just care about the process. If you If you work hard for something, no matter what the result is, you can tell yourself that you have worked hard, so even if the result is not good, you have no regrets."
"But... My father and mother always hope that I can make a difference..."
He spoke with some disappointment. Before he met Gou'er, he was full of rebelliousness. The more his parents forced him, the more he didn't want to. Later, when he got to know Gou'er and saw that he was so curled up at such a young age, he was not to be outdone and followed him in curling up. At the same time, he also wanted to perform well in front of his parents and let them take a high look at him.
Lu Baichuan glanced at He Jiuniang. He didn't know much about educating children. It all depends on his wife's performance.
He Jiuniang said: "It is true that your father, the Queen, and the Queen wish you well, but for yourself, you are not good for others, but for yourself, no matter whether you can live up to your parents' expectations or not, The most important thing is to be worthy of yourself. If you keep playing with things and not thinking aboutIf you are aggressive, your parents will be disappointed, but the person you feel most sorry for is yourself. But if you work hard and try your best, then it doesn’t matter what the result is, because you are worthy of yourself. Except for yourself, other people's opinions are actually not very important, because in the end, you will always be the one who benefits or reaps the consequences. ”
When educating her son, He Jiuniang advised him to relax and enjoy more of his childhood. This was mainly because the dog had always worked hard, to the point where He Jiuniang felt distressed.
< br />But the little prince is different. This child's goal is not very clear. He is working hard with the dog now just because he doesn't want to be left too far by the dog. By the way, he can also do business with his parents, but for him, it is not. He has never had a clear goal.
He seems to have been living for others.
Therefore, He Jiuniang felt that it was necessary to remind him so that he would not leave. Wrong way.
Although this actually has nothing to do with her, the young prince plays so well with the dog now, and... ahem, his father and mother have given her so much There are many benefits, but she still has to help educate more.
When people are confused, she likes to be the Holy Mother who gives guidance, hehe.
The young prince may not immediately understand the meaning of these words, so he did not respond for the time being, and still looked worried. He Jiuniang could understand the shock caused by hearing such words for the first time, so she did not say anything more, just He patted his shoulder and comforted him silently.
Lu Baichuan silently gave his wife a thumbs up in his heart. He felt that what she said was right. No matter whether a person works hard or not, he will bear his own responsibility in the end. Everything has nothing to do with their parents, and the same goes for other people.
After returning to the house, several people went to see Kang Tanhua, and the two children kept talking around the bed. Kang Tanhua was very happy to show concern and talked to them. By the way, he briefly tested their homework before the two children left.
After deceiving the two children away, he Then he looked at He Jiuniang and asked, "Doctor He have found a way to cure me? ”
He Jiuniang has not shown up in the past few days, and there are rumors that she is trying to find a solution for his injury, but he knows exactly how his body is, and she must have her own reason for doing this. Because of this, he helped us act together. His bones were falling apart from walking in the past few days, and he didn’t even get up to move around. He looked very weak.
When I asked this question, it was actually Ask her if all the things she went to do have been done.
He Jiuniang smiled and said: "Of course, I will try my best to treat a talent like Mr. Kang. I believe it won't take a few days." , then you canWent to take the palace exam! ”
Kang Xiucai knew that the imperial court had even postponed the date of the imperial examination for him. While feeling moved, he also understood that the prince and the emperor actually gave the Lu family face, and knew that he had a good relationship with them. , that’s why we are accommodating.
“These days, it’s really...”
“The suffering that Mr. That's the apology sir. ”
Lu Baichuan interrupted his intention to apologize and gave him a salute as an apology. He was a little anxious and subconsciously wanted to get up to stop him. His servant Xiaoding hurriedly stepped forward to help him, fearing that He fell himself and aggravated his injury.
"The third master said seriously, this is the fault of Dongting people, what does it have to do with the Lu family? If it weren't for their repeated ambitions, these things would not have happened. It seems that the battle between Beiyan and Dongting must be fought! "
Kang Tanhua sighed, this Dongting person is really annoying, he just doesn't know if the country can withstand such a war.
Thinking of this, he He looked up at the couple standing in front of him and thought, with these two here, it shouldn't be a problem, right? By then, he should also contribute to the court.
" Sir, do you think this battle should be fought? ”
Lu Baichuan’s eyes lit up. So far, no civil servant in the DPRK and China agrees with the war.