Judging from her words, she should be asking about feelings.

Having known her for so long, she still knew something about He Jiuniang.

He Jiuniang was bought back by the Lu family, which was not a good thing. The only good thing is that the Lu family is very kind and has never treated her harshly since they bought her back.

Her husband went away with someone on the second day of their wedding. After being away for many years, the Lu family did not blame her for this fault.

I reunited with Lu Baichuan some time ago, and it seems that the relationship between them as a couple should be pretty good.

Since it is good, then why is she asking herself questions about feelings now?

Jiang Ruoya was a little nervous. This child didn’t have a mother to teach her since she was a child, and she didn’t know her daughter’s character very well. For a while, she really couldn’t figure out what she was thinking.

　“You say.”

Despite this, she still responded to He Jiuniang with a smile. No matter what, you have to listen to what she means first.

He Jiuniang thought for a while and said: "Aunt Jiang, you also know what happened between me and my husband. He left home on the second day of the wedding. Over the years, my impression of him is nothing more than a stranger. We are familiar with each other a little bit. I was not as happy as I thought when we reunited some time ago, and I even selfishly thought that if he never came back, my life might be easier."
< br />　“In the beginning, my relationship with him was polite and distant. I always felt that he suddenly broke into my world, which made me feel a little uncomfortable.”

　“But he has not been outside for many years. He has been a promiscuous person, but he has devoted himself to building a career and bringing glory to the whole family. He is also very kind to me. No matter what he does, he will ask my opinion first before making a decision. He will never force me to do something I don’t want to do, even I have been in the capital for so many days this time, and I receive letters from him every now and then."

"I am very confused. I don’t know what my feelings are for him now. I saw his letter. , I am happy and excited, but I have been avoiding some emotional issues in my replies to him.”

“I don’t know how to face him now, nor what should I do. How to express my thoughts to him, my whole body is like a mess, I don’t know what to do at all..."

As she said this, she sighed leisurely, feeling that this emotional The problem is too complex.

After hearing what she said, Jiang Ruoya shook her head and smiled helplessly. It could be heard that she was really confused, and even her words were very scattered, which showed how tormented she must be.

However, what He Jiuniang said was much better than what she thought. She originallyI thought it was something serious, but I didn't expect it to be an emotional problem between the couple.

If this was a bad relationship problem, it would really be a headache, but from what He Jiuniang meant, it was clear that there was a good situation.

She thought for a moment and said, "Actually, I think from the moment you told me this and explained so much to him, you already had the correct answer in your heart, and there was no doubt about it. , you fell in love with him."

"Your feelings for him now are not like when you first got married. You were together just to complete the task of life, nor because he was a dog. Dad, because of some blood relationship, you really fell in love with him."

"Relationship does happen step by step. From the beginning, you feel a little resistant when he comes back, and gradually From getting along well with him to now falling in love, there is a specific process. You are attracted by his advantages and personality charm. Apart from all external reasons, this is the person you love."

　"It's just that you have never had such an experience, that's why you are so distressed like this. Since you came to me, it means that you trust me enough, so I won't hide it from you." "

"A person's life may not be long, but it may not be short. It is not easy to meet someone who treats each other sincerely. Now that you have met it, don't miss it."

　"He is naturally good to you because he has you in his heart, and if you keep avoiding him, he will mistakenly think that you don't have that kind of thoughts for him. You also said that he will never force you to do something you don't like. If you keep evading and don’t respond positively, maybe he will secretly hide that love in his heart and never show it again.”

Jiang Ruoya’s meaning is obvious, that is, let him She seized the opportunity and tried her best to let the other party know that she should not miss such a beloved person.

He Jiuniang originally thought so, but now she felt relieved when she heard that Jiang Ruoya was so supportive.

"But how should I speak? Let me tell him directly, I really can't say it!"

He Jiuniang sighed and stopped picking vegetables. , her cheeks were swollen with worry, waiting for Jiang Ruoya to give her some advice.

Jiang Ruoya only found it funny. Her daughter really didn’t understand the relationship between men and women. Looking at her upright temperament, she didn’t know who she learned it from.

　“You don’t have to say it if you can’t say it. Some things don’t have to be said. You can show it through actual actions and let him know that you have him in your heart. This is also okay. "

When He Jiuniang heard this, she immediately felt that she had found the right person. Why didn't she think of it?

Her mind is full of postmodern confessions and the like. If she loves him, she must let him know., you have to tell him loudly.

If they were a couple with a very good relationship, then she could say those intimate words without any pressure, but now they are in a more contradictory and awkward relationship, which is a bit hard to say. .

Therefore, expressing through actions is the only and best way now.

So what exactly should she do?

He Jiuniang actually already has the answer to this specific approach.

After all, the special clothes she designed have helped many couples strengthen their relationships. There is no reason why she, the chief designer, can’t use them for herself.

Just kidding, she is an all-around athlete in the new era. She has never eaten pork and has never seen a pig run?

If it really doesn’t work, the worst she can do is get into space to make up for a few classic episodes, hehehehe...

Thinking of this, her mood suddenly brightened, and she no longer had the same feeling as before. Depressed and helpless.

"Oh, Aunt Jiang, I knew I should ask you about this kind of thing. You are so kind!"

She jumped up and down holding Jiang Ruoya, I have never felt so happy.

"You are right, time flies by, and you should cherish the people in front of you. There is no need for me to worry so much."

She had always had a knot in her heart before, and she would spend the whole day I can't stand it, but now that I think about it, Lu Baichuan is considered a high-quality man in this era. If he doesn't express his attitude as soon as possible, another woman may come to interfere.

Wasn’t the previous Yufen an obvious case?

"It's good that you can understand it. I will give you some advice based on my many years of experience. Mr. Lu is indeed a very good husband. You should cherish it."
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