At this moment, Li Xiaoxiao looked at her mother seriously. This was the first time she heard her mother talk about the past so seriously. After listening, Li Xiaoxiao felt really shocked and surprised.
"Mom, I didn't expect that you had such thoughts..." Li Xiaoxiao said with still a bit of disbelief.
"Xiaoxiao, as long as you are married, you will have such thoughts, but whether you say it out loud depends on the person. I never said it out loud at the time, including breaking the law. Your grandparents don't even know that I have such thoughts."
Xiao's mother raised her head again, looked at Li Xiaoxiao seriously, and continued.
"Xiaoxiao, have you ever felt that the experience your father and I had was very similar to the experience you and Zhiqiang had?" Xiao's mother continued to ask.
Hearing this, Li Xiaoxiao thought for a long time, and then nodded firmly. It was indeed true.
Li Yonggui was once looked down upon by Xiao’s parents, but later he succeeded through hard work, and the same was true for Fang Zhiqiang.
Their marriage was opposed by their parents, and his marriage to Fang Zhiqiang was also opposed at the beginning.
Xiao’s mother once had the idea of divorce, and she has also had the idea of divorce now.
"Then do you know why?" Xiao's mother continued to ask.
“Why?” Li Xiaoxiao said seriously.
"Actually, Xiaoxiao, everyone's marriage is the same. Marriage is two people living together. It is impossible without bickering or quarreling. Everyone's marriage is not what it seems on the outside. Happy and sweet, there are always sad stories that are unknown to others. Maybe in your eyes, your father and I have always had a happy and beautiful marriage, but in fact, there are many things you don’t understand. Today I will tell you I just want to tell you that there has never been a happy world like a fairy tale in this world. The reality is always unpredictable and ups and downs."
"Xiaoxiao, I used to hope that you I have always believed that fairy tales exist in this world, because they are the driving force for us to continue to work hard and the undying childlike innocence in our hearts. But now, you should probably understand that fairy tales do not exist. There are some in reality. , it is enough to just rely on our joint efforts to manage and try to have a stable and happy married life."
As Xiao's mother said, she stretched out her hand and sorted out the messy hair in Li Xiaoxiao's ears. Hair, looked at her with a doting look on her face, and said with a smile: "You have grown into a big girl..."
At this time, Li Xiaoxiao was thinking very seriously about what her mother had just said, she seemed to Suddenly I realized that what I originally thought was right was actuallyThere is no right or wrong at all. Life is not a test. Not everything has a standard answer. Different perspectives on things will lead to completely different results.
"In addition, mom wants to tell you today that every small decision you make now will affect your entire life. If you are cruel and say those two words, maybe you will If both of you are angry and do that thing, your life trajectories will undergo major changes. But if you endure it for a moment, then those two words may never appear again in this life. , because you will eventually usher in the beginning of a happy life. At that time, you will realize that all the worries are just yesterday's clouds. After today, looking back, they are nothing more than an after-dinner conversation and a joke. It's just the past."
After listening carefully to all her mother's words, Li Xiaoxiao finally nodded firmly. She looked at her mother seriously and said, "Mom, I understand your good intentions. Next, I may know what to do."
Xiao's mother closed her eyes and nodded, and then continued: "Xiaoxiao, in fact, my mother doesn't want to see you grow up the most. These words are not As a last resort, your mother won't tell you. But you have to understand that your parents can't accompany you for the rest of your life. You have to walk the rest of your life on your own. If you don't learn these things, you will take many detours. Your parents don't want to be there. In another world, I see that your future will be rough and bumpy, and your parents hope that you will have smooth sailing."
"Mom, please stop talking, my daughter understands."
Li Xiaoxiao threw herself into her mother's arms, feeling the familiar smell, so familiar and so warm.
In the eyes of my parents, I will always be the one to be taken care of. What they bear is a pressure that I can never imagine in my life.
Even though I have reached this age, I am still diligent in teaching myself. If you don’t walk this road of life yourself, you will never be able to experience its mysteries.
"Okay, now it's time for you to make your own decision. If you really feel that the next few days will be difficult and you don't want to endure that kind of pain anymore, mom will support you!"
Xiao’s mother rubbed Li Xiaoxiao’s head and said as if she were her little daughter.
In fact, Xiao’s mother is very reluctant to let go of Fang Zhiqiang. In her heart, except Fang Zhiqiang, no man can love Li Xiaoxiao more, and no man knows how to take care of her better than Fang Zhiqiang. she.
The reason why Xiao’s mother said this was to make Li Xiaoxiao clearly realize that no matter when, as long as her parents are still alive, she has the capital to do whatever she wants. One day, They are all gone, then it's time for her to truly take on everythingWait.
It is a pity that Li Xiaoxiao still has not realized this. She just looked at her mother seriously, shook her head and said: "I have already thought about it, I don't want him to leave. Me."
"Well, good boy, as long as you have your own answer in your heart." Xiao's mother squinted her eyes again and smiled, touched Li Xiaoxiao's hair, and then said.
"Mom, can you tell me how to be open-minded?" Li Xiaoxiao asked again.
"My dear daughter, you are actually very open-minded. When it comes to feelings, no woman has been truly open-minded since ancient times. If she can do it, it means that she I don’t love that man at all.” Xiao’s mother continued to say seriously.
"Then..." Li Xiaoxiao nodded thoughtfully, but frowned again, wanting to say something.
“My mother’s original idea was to participate in work with your father, to experience his world, feel his heart, and realize his wishes.”
Xiaoma naturally knew what Li Xiaoxiao wanted to ask, so she took the initiative and said so.
After listening, Li Xiaoxiao nodded seriously again, and then said: "I seem to understand."
"Of course, mom didn't say that you should also be with him. We are busy together. I just want to tell you that many things, before you can understand them, are actually because you have limited your thinking and solidified the perspective of looking at the problem. As long as you change it a little, the same thing will happen thousands of times. The result."
Xiao's mother looked at Li Xiaoxiao's sudden realization and immediately added again.
"I understand, I will try to do it." Li Xiaoxiao nodded seriously and continued.
"Xiaoxiao, I hope you can truly understand the meaning of everything mom said today."
Xiao's mother suddenly took Li Xiaoxiao's hand away from hers Go over, then slowly stand up, and while talking, turn around and walk towards the door.
Watching his mother leave her bedroom, Li Xiaoxiao looked at her reluctantly, as if this was the last farewell.
It wasn’t until her figure completely disappeared from the door that Li Xiaoxiao came back to her senses again. Looking at the empty door, Li Xiaoxiao suddenly realized that she was still living under the careful care of her parents. Just like a sapling that has not yet grown up, the big tree protects itself from wind and rain and takes care of itself to grow vigorously day after day.
However, how long can I survive under such a shelter? When will you have to face the wind and rain alone and challenge life?
Li Xiaoxiao, who just woke up at this moment, is not too late, because as long as his parents are still alive, he still has the capital to be willful!