Li Xiaoxiao was a little surprised. She didn’t know why her mother suddenly brought up this topic. It was normal for her mother to be concerned about her marriage. Xiaoxiao knew that her mother was worried that she would be gone in a few years, leaving Xiaoxiao alone. But I had never thought about changing my surname before.
Li Xiaoxiao also knew that dreaming about her father discussing this was just an excuse for her mother. I guess it was because I was chatting with an uncle or aunt on the phone about home affairs today, and the relatives gave me the idea.
"Mom, it doesn't matter what your surname is, aren't we all our little love Li?" Li Xiaoxiao was also worried about making her mother unhappy, so she slowly explained: "Besides, even if the surname is changed to Li, it will still change. But Qiangzi also loves Li’s father. Now Qiangzi has not done anything bad. For the sake of his children, there is no need to change his name."
"Xiaoxiao, you are just too simple. Fang Zhiqiang now has two children with Wang Yaxin. How much energy can we spend on Ai Li in the future? Ai Li's custody rights are already with us, and we don't need Fang Zhiqiang to pay for the alimony. You are the only child in the Li family. , you are just a little Ai Li now, and a boy. It can be regarded as a single generation. Your uncles often mention this matter, and they have always cared about Ai Li." Xiao's mother slowly began to express her emotions. A little excited.
Xiao’s mother came over and put her hand on Xiaoxiao’s little arm, and said earnestly: “Xiaoxiao, there are some things my mother doesn’t hide from you, and we actually discussed it many times before your father passed away. I think. I want you to have two children after you get married. At least one of them should be named Li. Now that we can support the children by ourselves, changing the surname to Li is not too much. Xiaoxiao, don’t forget that the Li family is also a big family. After changing the surname to Li, I will follow Your uncle has discussed it, and there is no problem in entering the Li family tree."
"Mom, what age are we in now, how come you still have this kind of thinking." Li Xiaoxiao listened patiently to her mother at first. Speaking of which, I was a little angry at the end. I still controlled my emotions and said to my mother: "Mom, it doesn't matter what your surname or name is. The most important thing is that Ai Li grows up happily and healthily. Mom, I know you also want to fulfill one of my father's wishes, but I don't care about this." It’s better to mention it to Qiangzi. You said how sad he was after hearing this. I think giving Xiao Aili a happy childhood is the most important thing.”
Xiao’s mother felt that she only listened. Xiaoxiao realized that it was not good to mention this to Fang Zhiqiang, and replied: "Xiaoxiao, it's not your fault to mention it to me." Li Xiaoxiao looked helpless: "Mom, this is not someone's business. The point is not this. The point is the happiness of little Ai Li's childhood."
"Xiaoxiao, mom knows Ai Li's happiness. The most important thing is that Ai Li is still young now, so changing his name will have no impact on him. Will it be a bigger problem if the child changes his name after he goes to elementary school?" Xiao's mother was a little excited and coughed several times.
Li Xiaoxiao felt distressed when she saw her mother and didn’t want to continue fighting.When I asked this question, I quickly comforted my mother: "Mom, I understand. I will find an opportunity to talk about this matter. Qiangzi is not in the country now, so there is no rush. I will find an opportunity to say it after returning to the country. Don't worry."
That’s what Li Xiaoxiao thinks. She doesn’t care about changing her name. Maybe after a while, her mother will slowly let it go. But if he asked himself to go to Fang Zhiqiang to talk about changing his name, he would definitely not be able to speak up. I feel uncomfortable just thinking about it. How will I face the other person's eyes when the time comes? Fang Zhiqiang knows what he will think in his heart in the future. Fang Zhiqiang is a person with such a strong self-esteem. He may talk well, but he will feel very uncomfortable in his heart. Li Xiaoxiao couldn't say this to Qiangzi. But now I don’t argue with my mother anymore. Seeing my mother nodding in acquiescence, Li Xiaoxiao continued: "Don’t worry about my own affairs. I can live a good life alone, not to mention that I have my wife." Mom, where are you and Xiao Aili?"
Xiao’s mother obviously disagreed with this view and retorted directly: “That won’t work. I won’t be here in a few years. How can you be alone and have to take care of little Ai Li?”< br />
“Mom, don’t talk nonsense, you are in good health. I also want to wait until the winter is over and spring gets warmer. Let’s take Ai Li and my sister with us and drive a RV together for a self-driving trip. "Li Xiaoxiao glared at her mother with a stubborn mouth and took her arm.
"Xiaoxiao, you are still young and have good conditions. Take this opportunity to meet a few more people and see if there is anyone suitable. Your aunt recommended several men to me today, and one of them is a returnee from overseas. Doctor, I heard that the conditions are quite good, I will show you the photos later." Xiao's mother touched her daughter's short hair and turned on the matchmaker mode.
"Mom, I finally gave you a day off. What did you do all day? Don't worry, Mom. It's not that I can't get out of the shadow of the past. It will take a little time. And you must find someone I like again, right? Didn’t you agree last time not to rush me on this matter, but to let me make my own decision?" Li Xiaoxiao said this, but in fact she was still resisting in her heart. If it wasn't for Mom, Li Xiaoxiao may not be interested in the opposite sex now.
Li Xiaoxiao also read a post a few days ago, asking whether women after divorce should look for a partner again. Some people think that it is no longer necessary. Being an independent woman can have a lot of independent time to spend on yourself, which is fulfilling and safe. But some people say that saying that it is unnecessary is actually escaping, giving up the happiness that may be encountered later, and avoiding the uncertainty of things happening when two people know each other and love each other. At this stage, Li Xiaoxiao herself naturally doesn't have much interest in taking the initiative to enter into love or even marriage, and her mother's health is also in this condition. I don’t think about anything now. My mother is healthy and my little Aili is happy. This is more real than anything else.
What else did Xiao’s mother want to say? Xiaoxiao came over and hugged her mother.I took two people together and started taking selfies, and asked my mother to choose hairpins and earrings for her new hairstyle. Xiao's mother is also a child at heart. After a while, she forgot about the two troubled things and became Xiaoxiao's special photographer, taking pictures of Xiaoxiao's different hairpins and earrings. Xiao's mother praised her while taking pictures: "Don't say it, Xiaoxiao, after seeing it, I think your short hair is getting better and better, just like you did when you were a child."