Zhang Ling's words really stunned Wang Yaxin. She knew what she was struggling with. Although there was nothing wrong with Zhang Ling's words, after all, in Wang Yaxin's heart, she always thought that her relationship with Fang Zhiqiang was not that simple. .
If all love and hatred can be explained by reason, then why are there so many people trapped in love in this world? After all, Zhang Ling has not experienced what she has experienced, so how can she know what she and Fang Zhiqiang are thinking about each other? The world she experienced and the things she encountered shaped her current knowledge, but Wang Yaxin knew very well that everyone has their own cognitive boundaries, and no one knows everything. There is always her own blind spot, and Wang Yaxin can humbly accept her own blind spots. Of course, she is rational and will not ignore other people's blind spots.
“Yaxin, do you think it’s not painful for me to stand and talk? Do you think my situation is already so bad, but I’m still boasting to you, so I’m not very convincing?”
Zhang Ling looked at Wang Yaxin's silent look and immediately understood what she was thinking. After pondering for a moment, Zhang Ling continued to say to Wang Yaxin: "Yaxin, you shouldn't have such thoughts. , A good athlete may not necessarily live a long life, but he can teach others how to keep their bodies healthy. A professor may not necessarily know everything, but his cognitive height is not The ceiling for his future apprentice, do you understand what I mean? Although my own love life is a mess, it does not mean that the advice I give you is meaningless. We can never give up anything that can make We have the opportunity to make progress, not to mention, you are the authority. As a bystander, I can see your true inner thoughts more clearly than you yourself. The time we have known each other may not be long, but it is short. It's not short. You have never mentioned to me the story of Fang Zhiqiang you just told. Sometimes when you talk about emotional experiences, you seem to be deliberately avoiding these topics. But now, when you tell me After all this, although I only listened to a little bit of the story between you, as a woman, I can feel how much you care about him. Just like what you said, you don’t know what’s in his heart. What do you think? Why do you think this way? If it were a man you didn't care about at all, would you consider what he was thinking inside? Since you care so much about his thoughts and are so cautious, isn't it all because of you? Do you care about him?"
After Zhang Ling finished speaking, she took a long breath. It seemed that these words cost her a lot of energy. At this moment, Wang Yaxin couldn't help but look at herself. Zhang Ling in front of her, of course, she knew that all Zhang Ling said was just to persuade her. Even now, she has not fully adjusted herself, so she treats herself like this. Moreover, what Zhang Ling just said, and indeed expressed Wang Yaxin's inner doubts. At this moment, she thought carefully, maybe her previous thoughts were indeed wrong, and maybe she should readjust her state.
“Although I don’t know how many stories have happened between you and him, let alone why you are in this state now, I can clearly feel that you love him and others. Everyone's feelings are different. At least so far, I have not found any man who can make you, who is originally rational, so worried about gains and losses, so confused."
The silent Wang Yaxin heard Zhang Ling again Every word in Wang Yaxin's heart was like a needle piercing her heart. Yes, what a rational woman she used to be? At that time, no matter when facing anything, I could always use reason to constantly remind myself that what I did was the most correct choice. But now, I have completely become a person who I don't understand at all. People I know have never even thought about why they are like this. Maybe one day many years later, when they recall the present, they will feel unbearable to look back, right?
"Yaxin, I sincerely suggest you that no matter what situation you encounter after you go back, you should not choose to escape, because this is the most cowardly behavior and the most likely to make you The best way to miss the best opportunity is that when you understand all this in the future, there may be no room for regret. There are too many unfortunate people in this world. They can’t get their own happiness, or they fall in love with someone they shouldn’t. People who fall in love, but all this is actually their own fault. If they are willing to work harder and pay a little more for what they want to pursue, it may be a completely different result."
Zhang Ling suddenly said so much to Wang Yaxin so solemnly and seriously, which made it difficult for Wang Yaxin to adapt for a while. She used to be so enthusiastic, but the feeling at that time was completely different from now. Wang Yaxin had never even She thought that a woman like Zhang Ling, whose life was originally ordinary, would have so many emotions, she couldn't believe it.
“Do you think it’s strange that I have so many emotions for such a simple emotional experience?” Zhang Ling seemed to see Wang Yaxin’s inner doubts again, and also She took the initiative to say this without waiting for Wang Yaxin to speak.
When Wang Yaxin heard this, she was speechless. She seemed to feel that Zhang Ling suddenly changed into a different person, and could even see through her own mind. When she was with her in the past, Wang Yaxin only felt She is a passionate person, and can even notice that she is a person who lacks friends, but she has never felt this way. But now, she feels like a transparent person in front of her. She seemed to be able to see through all the thoughts in her heart, and she relied entirely on guessing. In fact, WangYaxin didn't like this feeling very much, because she used to think that she was a good reader of people, but often when others saw through her, she would have a very strange feeling in her heart. Wang Yaxin couldn't explain it herself. , I always feel as if I have been tricked.
For example, when she first came into contact with Zhang Ling, she was actually able to see through some of her inner thoughts, but she had always deliberately not revealed them. If it hadn't happened this time, , maybe she still doesn’t know how to say these things. Wang Yaxin is even thinking, if it weren’t for this incident, would she never know that Zhang Ling is actually such an excellent person? So was he already a transparent person in front of her before? Is it just that I haven’t realized it yet? Although Wang Yaxin knew that this was Zhang Ling's own ability and ability, and she shouldn't have any concerns because of this, she just felt uncomfortable.
Zhang Ling also continued at this time: "Actually, when I have nothing to do, I always like to read books. I have to say that there are indeed many things worth learning in books. Through books, we , and you can indeed learn a lot of knowledge. Maybe you think what I just said to you sounds a bit inexplicable. In fact, those are all what I read from books. Although they are all theoretical knowledge, I think , since someone can express his own views through books, then he must have his own reasons. We can remove the dross and take the essence. If it is useful to us, we can just keep it in mind."
Wang Yaxin looked at Zhang Ling silently at this moment. She didn't speak for a long time. She didn't know what she should say. Looking at this woman she was not familiar with, Wang Yaxin suddenly felt a strange feeling. Wang Yaxin had a strange feeling. With an intuition, the woman in front of him was by no means as simple as she said. Wang Yaxin certainly knew that reading can change a person's many ideas and thinking, but when Zhang Ling said those words just now, it looked like It was the same thing that she had experienced personally, and what she said was so sincere and touching. If she had not experienced that personally, if she had only read about it in books, how could she have felt so deeply?
But as Zhang Ling just said, at this time, it is obviously meaningless to worry about these. For Wang Yaxin now, the most important thing is to make a decision early.