After Bi Luochun heard this, he did not immediately answer Fang Zhiqiang's words. Instead, he took a long breath. After pondering for a long time, he finally said slowly: "Actually, in the final analysis, your situation is because of you. Scumbag."

Fang Zhiqiang frowned again, perhaps because he was obsessed with authority. For Fang Zhiqiang, he had never thought that he was a scumbag.

　"Every person who is trapped by love knows very well that the reason why he is troubled, entangled and hesitant is because he wants too much. In fact, some people and Things are something you can't get no matter how hard you try." Bi Luochun continued.

　"Just like Yanzi and I, we were so poor before, but she followed me without a single complaint, but what happened later? I am rich, but I want to share this success with her When I was filled with joy, I discovered that she was no longer the Liu Yan she used to be. At that time, I had been thinking, was the person I was pursuing so hard the person I really wanted deep down in my heart? It wasn’t until later that we After we reconciled, I discovered that she was actually still her. She herself had not changed, only her attitude toward me had changed."

"Speaking of which, I also want to remind you that you With you two, Wang Yaxin, I have always wanted to say it, but I felt it was inappropriate. In fact, you both know in your hearts that you have some evil intentions towards each other. The reason why you have never taken that step is because of you. Too greedy."

Bi Luochun's words made Fang Zhiqiang more and more confused. He couldn't figure out what Bi Luochun meant by "insatiable".

"You are not only greedy for the other person, but also for how much the other person can give you. You are even greedy for reputation and what others think of you. To put it simply, you are greedy for what you have done to make others feel. You do something wrong, but you still want others to have a good opinion of you, so I think this is scum." After Bi Luochun finished speaking, he turned to look at Fang Zhiqiang.

Sure enough, Fang Zhiqiang was speechless at this moment. Bi Luochun's words greatly exceeded his expectation. Things that he had never thought of were actually explained clearly by an outsider.

Looking back now, every word Bi Luochun said is so true.

Whether it is Wang Yaxin or herself, just as Bi Luochun said, it is indeed greed, too much greed!

"Actually, sometimes, things are not that complicated. Just like when I first pursued Yanzi, I just wanted Yanzi to agree to me. I am not greedy for anything else. As for after agreeing, Whether she will be good to me or what others will say about us, to me, I don’t care at all, because at that time I just wanted to be with Yanzi." Bi Luochun continued.

Fang ZhiqiangHe couldn't help but nodded. If he and Wang Yaxin had the same thoughts, maybe the two of them would have been together long ago.

The car continued to drive forward, and Fang Zhiqiang was completely unaware at the moment. The sky outside was gradually getting darker, and there were fewer and fewer street lights next to it. They had already driven out of the West Fourth Ring Road. This is the western suburbs of the Pearl.

"As for you and Li Xiaoxiao, I know you had a lot of conflicts before your divorce, but for any couple, how can there be no conflicts at all? Yanzi and I are usually good We are always at odds, but when we quarrel, we both hate each other, but afterwards it will be the same as usual, whatever happens. But you and Li Xiaoxiao are not such people. You are both the kind of people who are not good at venting. I like to keep everything in my heart. In fact, this will be very harmful to your relationship. My understanding of Li Xiaoxiao may be limited, but you and I know very well. You used to talk about everything in front of me. In a sense, you are actually a very talkative person, but in Li Xiaoxiao, you seem to be a completely different person. This can be seen from several misunderstandings that have occurred before. You have Sometimes you don’t like to explain, even if you realize that the other person is angry, you still choose to remain silent. In fact, at that time, if you have a big quarrel, it may make both of you feel relieved.”

Bi Luochun's long speech made Fang Zhiqiang feel like he was enlightened. He used to think that these words would not have much effect even if he said them, but now he realized that people always appear plausive when persuading others. It is indeed because the bystanders know clearly. And their suggestions can indeed solve many problems for themselves.

“Finally, let’s talk about the company. In fact, for me, as long as my current life is a little better than before, it will be fine. Think about the time when I had nothing before, and then think about my current life. State, to put it bluntly, even if Huaqiang fails, even if we are reduced to ordinary people in the end, are we still the same as before? You yourself said this at the beginning, the worst is to change back to the original appearance. For us, You have nothing to lose. As long as you regard the reputation, money and status you have gained in the past few years as gifts from God, won’t everything be relieved?”

Bi Luochun in terms of emotions Fang Zhiqiang agreed with his remarks, but Fang Zhiqiang disagreed with his views on company issues.

"Lao Bi, you don't realize that the company is not yours and mine, nor the company of any one person, but the company of our entire team. You are right. For us For me, the worst case scenario is that it will go back to what it was before, but when I was at Mingda, I already realized that once the company collapsed, not only would we lose everything, but our team and so many employees would lose their jobs. Opportunities may even bring a huge blow to their lives. Think about usWhen I was in poverty, the most feared thing every day was being fired by my boss. Once I lost my job, I felt like the whole world was about to collapse. "Fang Zhiqiang said seriously.

Bi Luochun nodded after hearing this, and then said: "That's what I said. In fact, it depends on what you think about this kind of thing. If you If you think like me, you won't be too depressed even if you don't succeed in the end. If you think like you, then naturally, you have to be responsible for everyone. Although this will make you very tired, you will still enjoy it. And very motivated. "

"Furthermore, what I said is not to let you waste your time. We will still do what we need to do, and we will not be lazy when we need to work hard. However, if the final result is really not satisfactory, There is no need to be so entangled. After all, all the strength we can use has been used up. What is there to regret? ”

“As for the woman Liu Jiaying, I really don’t know much about it, but according to what you said, I also think that this woman should be an unstable guy. There are all kinds of people in this world. Yes, you can selectively make friends with the people you are interested in, but you can't decide what kind of people will approach you. For an uncertain person like Liu Jiaying, you can't choose when she will approach you, but You can choose to avoid her because, in the process of getting along with her, you cannot find a suitable and effective way to deal with her. "

As Bi Luochun spoke, he looked out the window. At this time, the sky had completely darkened, and the car had already reached the suburbs.

Fang Zhi Qiang Ye finally noticed the darkening sky around him, and then looked out the window. With the faint light, Fang Zhiqiang roughly saw that in front of the car was a very narrow country parking road, and on the right side of the road, there seemed to be a There is a ravine with no bottom visible, and on the left is a hill of unknown height.

But at this time, Fang Zhiqiang was obviously not interested in this. Regarding what Bi Luochun just said, Fang Zhiqiang continued: "Actually, Lao Bi, many times your ideas are indeed good, but if they are used on me, they may not be appropriate. Maybe it is because of the difference in our identities, or maybe it is because of how you and I view each other. The perspective of things is different. "

"Actually, to put it simply, it is because we have different views. You think this is right, and I think that is right. In fact, there is no right or wrong at all, no matter which way it is. In terms of opinions, as long as you can stick to your own ideas and keep going, as long as you can get the results you want, as long as you can experience the happiness you want, you are right. "Bi Luochun said casually.

These words made Fang Zhiqiang nodded again and couldn't help but fell into deep thought.

There are many people in this world, all kinds of Everyone has it, what?There are people with the same three views, and almost everyone has a completely different idea. For a farmer, he just wants it to rain when it is supposed to rain, so that he can have a good harvest. But for a businessman of a freight company, he hopes that it won't rain, otherwise it will delay his business.

Suppose, if you put these two people at the same time and in the same place, they will have two completely different ideas, and their ideas themselves are not wrong.

For another example, some people feel that since they are in this world, they cannot do nothing. Even if they cannot make a huge contribution to society, they must at least realize their personal value and enjoy the lifestyle and lifestyle of the upper class. state.

However, for people who think this way, there will definitely be people who think differently. They believe that the most important thing for people to live in the world is to be content and happy. Only inner happiness is the most important thing. The most real things, money and reputation, are just clouds. If you spend your whole life pursuing those things, won't they turn into a handful of loess in the end?

No one is wrong about the two ideas, but if you stand on one of them and look at the other idea, obviously for you, the other idea is wrong.

It is precisely because of this that there are various evaluations in this society.

A successful person will be evaluated by some people like this: "That person is obsessed with money. He makes any money. He is so heartless!"

And a mediocre person will also be evaluated by some people like this: "Look at him, he just eats, drinks and has fun all day long. He has no ambition at all. Compared with others, he is too promising!"< br />
If the person being evaluated is affected by these evaluations, or even affects his or her own thoughts, then he will fall into self-doubt and wonder whether his thoughts are really wrong?

Thus, the successful person may be troubled by this. Although he has so much money, he does not get the respect of others. On the contrary, in their eyes, he is so shameless.

As for the mediocre person, he was originally very proud of his current state of life where he didn't think about anything, and this indeed made him happy.

However, if he is swayed by those evaluations, he is likely to feel that he is really worthless? In such a large society, there is no need for oneself. It seems that whether one exists or not has no impact on anyone at all?

Things like ideas are very magical. Once people fall into thinking, they can’t stop digging deeper, trying to dig out the deepest and most real things. But in the end, Only then will you discover that, in fact, those things you think are 'real' are just those things after all.Just a weird idea.

And that thing never changes away from its origin.