"It's not...Uncle..." The bald man obviously couldn't react. What he just said was very clear, but looking at Ling'er's father's appearance, it was obviously completely different from what he expected.

"I know what you want to say. I think we should not be too rigid at this time. No one can tell what the future will be like. I think my daughter will be able to survive in the future. My happiness depends mainly not on what my son-in-law does now, but on his attitude toward my daughter."

"You may not understand, but you just said that , why did I still agree to let you get engaged, right? In fact, from what you just said, it is not difficult to see that you sincerely want to be good to my daughter. This alone is enough, and I also I believe that you will definitely change for Ling'er in the future. Even if you really can't change it, I don't think it is a shortcoming. Men, after all, they have their own things to do. Others may not understand, but as us You must understand yourself, support yourself, and persevere consistently!"

The words of Ling'er's father made the bald head's emotions completely overflow, and every word he said These are all the words from Bald's heart. Bald has even said this to others before, but there are very few people who can truly understand him. But now, these words of Ling'er's father are so appropriate, as if He can understand all the thoughts in his heart.

"I..." The bald head was already crying.

When Ling'er's father looked at the bald man's appearance, he couldn't help but lean forward slowly, and then he took the bald man into his arms, as if he were his own daughter, gently Comforting: "From now on, your thoughts will be understood by others."

At this moment, Nan Ling'er and Ling'er's mother suddenly came back. Seeing this scene, not only Ling'er's mother was stunned, and even Nan Ling'er looked at the scene in front of her with disbelief.

In her impression, her family belonged to a strict father and a loving mother, but looking at her father's appearance before her, how could he look like a strict father?

"Dad...what are you?" Nan Ling'er immediately covered her mouth, looked at her father in disbelief, and asked.

When Ling'er's father heard the sound, he immediately turned around. After getting ready, his expression returned to solemnity, and then he looked at Nan Ling'er and said, "Ling'er, I originally thought you had grown up. He is older, but now it seems that you are still like a child. You have not really understood him or put yourself in his shoes. It seems that you have not kept in mind the teachings I gave you before. "

"I..." Nan Ling'er was completely stunned. Her father had only met the bald man a few times. How come it seems like she is going to marry into their family now?Like my daughter-in-law? And the bald man naturally became his biological son?

"I'm talking about her dad! What do you mean by that? He is right, but our daughter is wrong?" Ling'er's mother obviously couldn't stand listening anymore. On her daughter's side, no matter what happens, as long as whoever makes her daughter unhappy, she thinks it's his fault.

"Listen to me first." Ling'er's father still said calmly, and then stood up slowly. When he was about to speak again, Ling'er's mother suddenly raised her voice and interrupted again. Said: "What are you talking about?! I have always felt that you are not good to your daughter. Isn't this daughter your own? Today, you are actually scolding your daughter for an outsider, isn't it? My daughter has grown up, and she has Do I have to listen to your cliche rhetoric for the rest of my life as my own standard for judging right and wrong?!"

"Can you stop talking!" Ling'er's father suddenly raised his voice in a high voice, which shocked everyone present. Everyone was stunned, and Ling'er's mother couldn't help but pause. Ling'er's father was a person who didn't get angry easily. Even though he was so strict with Nan Ling'er, he often never spoke at such a high volume.

"You..." Ling'er's mother was speechless for a moment. She hesitated for a long time, but could not say a complete sentence.

"Do you think that because I am cruel and harsh to my daughter, I am repaying her? Do you think that because you are unreasonably doting on your daughter, you are treating her well? Have you never done that? Have you ever noticed that Ling'er has such a positive outlook on life? You are right. Ling'er has indeed grown up now. Every time you listen to her speak, you feel that what she says makes sense. But have you ever thought about why? She was just a blank piece of paper when she was born. Apart from receiving education from school, who has always had an influence on her?"

"Now that we have said this today , Ling'er, I also want to hear your opinion on this matter." Ling'er's father suddenly stopped and looked at Nan Ling'er as he spoke.

Nan Ling'er was also stunned at the moment. In her impression, her father was a strict father, but in fact, he had not been really cruel to her several times. Every time he was angry, , he still seemed calm when he spoke, but the words he spoke made him unable to refute at all.

"I..." Nan Ling'er was stunned for a moment. After sorting out her emotions, she finally said: "I know that Baldhead and I are not the same people. Since I have chosen him, I should accept that he does something that I don’t want him to do. After all, he has his own views and his own choices, and I can’t interfere. Thinking about it carefully, it is indeed because of my selfishness that I want him to Become the kind of person I imagined, but I never thought about letting myself become the person who understands him."

I have to say, these words of Ling'er's father, had a relatively large impact on Nan Linger, making her wake up instantly.

On the side, Ling'er's mother was still completely dumbfounded. She saw that her daughter had a wronged expression just now, but now she has become so open-minded, and she was a little unable to react.

However, for her, right and wrong will never change. As long as her daughter is unhappy, it is wrong. As long as her daughter is happy, it is naturally right.

Looking at Nan Ling'er's expression of complete relief at this moment, Ling'er's mother also said helplessly: "You are all good people and have a high level. I am the only one who doesn't understand anything. "Bah!"

Ling'er's father directly ignored her words at this moment. Regarding Nan Ling'er's reply just now, he nodded seriously and then said: "Ling'er, the reason why I chose him is , not because I like him much, you should understand me. When I was young, I was most annoyed by these social gangsters. I chose him because he really loves you. If you ask me why I can realize this , I can tell you that what he just said to me reminds me of my past, when I faced your grandparents, I had similar thoughts in my heart, but at that time, I did not Say it."

"At this point, you may want to ask again. Over the years, you have not seen how much I love your mother, but in fact, marriage is not love. The love after marriage is reflected in the oil, salt, sauce and vinegar. I can tolerate her unreasonable troubles and her misbehavior. I can also accommodate her little princess temper for so many years. It is not because of how good my temper is. , but because I love her."

Ling'er's father took this opportunity to express his innocence. Just now, he made Ling'er's mother unhappy. At this moment, Ling'er's mother She couldn't remember it at all, because of what he just said, she couldn't help but blush. After all, she was already such an adult, and she was still a little embarrassed to say these words in front of her children.

"You are already old, why are you talking about this..." Ling'er's mother couldn't help but said a little shyly.

"It is precisely because we have reached this age that this point is even more important."

Ling'er's father said seriously again: "Ling'er, maybe you don't understand now. Yes, but after you get married, you will understand that marriage is completely different from what you imagined. At our age, there are not many marriages that can last as long as your mother and I. Some marriages are seemingly inseparable, and some marriages are inseparable. It already exists in name only, and in daily life it’s just as simple as having a meal together.”

Nan Ling’er listened to her father’s words seriously. For some reason, many children felt that they Her parents are nagging, but Nan Ling'er will never feel that her father is nagging. Every time her father wants to treat herNan Ling'er listened very carefully when he was preaching. She explained to herself that what her father said was indeed very reasonable.

"You said that he went out this time to help a friend. I just asked that his friend is the former president of Mingda Group, Fang Zhiqiang. This young man is me. I admire a person very much. He led Mingda through all kinds of difficulties with his own strength. This time Mingda was killed because he did not show up in time. Otherwise, I believe Mingda would not have fallen like this."

“A man can risk everything for his friends, and his character cannot be faulty, so I chose him.”

What Ling’er’s father said was extremely straightforward. Bai, the bald head beside him couldn't help but nod his head. But at this moment, Ling'er's father looked at the bald head again, which made the bald head startled.

　"I am here to tell you today that even on the day you get married, I will not tell you a word. I will not tell you. You must be good to my daughter. I won’t tell you to accommodate her and tolerate her. Because these are all based on one thing: love. I believe that as long as you love her, you will naturally know how to treat her, instead of listening to what I said."

When the bald man heard the words, he couldn't help but nodded, but didn't say anything. He felt that Ling'er's father's thoughts were very similar to his own, and he didn't like to express many things.

He has seen many newlyweds vowing to each other when they get married, which is particularly touching. But in fact, he does not think those are useful, just like the simple words of Ling'er's father just now Likewise, as long as you love her, you will naturally know how to treat her, and it is not as simple as saying something touching.

"Ling'er, I just heard that you guys are going to break up?" With that being said, Ling'er's father immediately turned his attention to Nan Ling'er. Next, it was time to solve the problem. .

When Nan Ling'er heard this, she couldn't help stroking her hair, and then she was hesitant and speechless.

"In my opinion, there is no need to break up. Your mother and I have completed the investigation today. This son-in-law is quite good. If you can marry him, your mother and I will feel relieved."

When Ling'er's mother heard this, she immediately wanted to express her opinion again. After all, she had such strong opinions on her son-in-law before. If she suddenly changed her attitude now, wouldn't she look too shameless? Have an opinion?

"I..."

But as soon as Ling'er's mother's voice came out, Ling'er's father said again: "But Ling'er, what I said to you just now, You should also keep it in mind. As time goes by, you cannot be so willful or selfish all the time. Love is mutual. When others give you something, you should also respond to it, not just all the time.It's cool for people to accommodate you and be considerate to you, do you understand? ”

　“Hmm! I can do it dad! " Nan Ling'er nodded fiercely, and she was considered to have won the battle.

On the side, Ling'er's mother saw that she had been completely ignored, and then she could only sigh helplessly.

“Her mother, what do you think? "Unfortunately, at this moment, Ling'er's father looked at her with a smile and asked.

Ling'er's mother raised her eyes and looked around, not knowing what she was looking at. Then he nodded and said: "Well, I think... what her father said is quite right! ”