After the decision was made, Fang Zhiqiang and Li Xiaoxiao took the little girl and walked towards Zhang Dayou's home.

The sky is gradually getting darker. On the country roads, the melted snow has turned into water and mixed with the soil. Walking on the muddy road is a bit difficult.

Fang Zhiqiang took out his mobile phone and turned on the flashlight.

Li Xiaoxiao was chatting with a girl at this time, "Xiaoyun, that woman just said that to you, are you angry?"

"Don't be angry, sister. I'm used to it." The girl smiled disapprovingly and spoke very calmly.

From her tone, Li Xiaoxiao could tell that she really didn't care anymore.

To be precise, when I saw her today, she seemed to be a completely different person from the last time. Li Xiaoxiao guessed that this might have something to do with her recommendation letter.

After all, she had endured the glares and insults from others all year round, and no one wanted to stand out more than she did.

Although she is a girl, Li Xiaoxiao knows that in her heart, she must especially want to be a respected person.

And now, she has finally realized her first step wish, which at least shows that she can succeed! She has what it takes to succeed!

It is precisely because of this that all the humiliation the girl suffered in the past became her motivation to move forward, and it also allowed her to regain her self-confidence.

"Xiaoyun, my sister is telling you something from her heart. You must remember it well, okay?" Li Xiaoxiao continued to say seriously.

"Yeah! Sister, tell me!" The girl nodded happily.

　“In fact, everyone has their own position and role in this world. For you before, although you were born in this ordinary village, at such a young age, you Living with your grandpa and being able to take good care of him is already very valuable at your age. Many people are not as good as you!"

"So you Don't feel that you are useless or inferior to others. Sometimes when they say something to you, you must resist. Only by resisting can they realize that you are not so easy to bully!"

After Li Xiaoxiao finished speaking, he looked sideways at the girl. The girl suddenly became silent and the smile on her face disappeared.

Mentioning the past was like opening up her scars again, and it was impossible for her not to feel pain.

"Xiaoyun, when one day you really succeed, you will look back at the past and you will find that it was just a joke! Moreover, it is also true thatIt is because of that experience that you have the determination to succeed. Many times, we even have to thank ourselves for all the setbacks we encountered before! ”

After the girl heard this, she suddenly looked up at Li Xiaoxiao. Although she still didn’t speak, Li Xiaoxiao could see from her eyes that she had indeed listened.
< br />"Actually, Xiaoyun, my sister used to be someone who was often criticized by others. You can ask your brother Fang. I was very stupid at that time and couldn't even ride a bicycle, so they all said that I was stupid at that time. But I didn't take it to heart. I didn't have to ride a bicycle because I had other advantages. Later, when I became better and better, no one said that I was stupid, and they even praised me! "

Li Xiaoxiao rubbed the girl's head, and the girl also smiled, and then asked seriously: "Sister, it is often said in books that we should be tolerant of others, be polite to others, and be kind to others. A civilized and good boy, but sister, in our village, everyone has not done this, and I found that even if I did it all, it would not have any effect, they would still look down on me, and they would still scold me often. ,why is that? ”

This passage made Li Xiaoxiao fall into deep thought for a while, because Li Xiaoxiao had never had such an experience. Even when he went to southern Yunnan at that time, the people he met were all simple and kind-hearted people. He never I have had such an experience.

But Fang Zhiqiang has this experience.

“Xiaoyun, let my brother tell you this. Fang Zhiqiang continued, "The world is big and there are all kinds of people. We can't ask others or change others, but we can become the kind of person we want to be." "

"I gave you an example. In the village, if someone scolded you and you didn't retaliate, they didn't think you were tolerant of others. Instead, they thought you were cowardly and spineless, because in the village In their consciousness, the word tolerance does not exist at all, because their cultural quality is far from your level. "

"I know that when someone scolds you, it's not that you don't want to pay attention to the other person, you just feel that even if you reason with the other person, they won't listen, right? ”

　“Hmm! "The girl nodded fiercely. She had tried it more than once or twice, and the solution was the same every time, so she didn't even explain the reason and chose to remain silent.

"Some People are unreasonable people. If you try to reason with them, wouldn't it be like playing the piano to a cow? For such people, what we have to do is to save our own energy, not to care about them, and not to waste time on them. And you have to know that your life is very long, and such people will not be by your side for a long time. When you become better and better in the future, the people around you will also become better and better. Gradually, those people in the small circle before will fade away.your sight. "

"So, you must insist on being yourself and not be assimilated by them, otherwise, you will still be surrounded by that group of people in the future. ”

After Fang Zhiqiang finished speaking, the girl finally realized that her grandfather was a person with a low level of education and would not usually tell her so many great truths. Even if she wanted to listen before, he would not. No one would tell her this, let alone the teacher.

After Fang Zhiqiang finished speaking, Li Xiaoxiao continued: "But Xiaoyun, I want to tell you one more thing, and you must remember it. "

"Sister, tell me! "The first question in the girl's mind has been solved.

"My sister asked you, are you proud that you are now a recommended student? Proud? "Li Xiaoxiao looked into the girl's eyes and asked.

"Of course I am proud! "The girl answered without hesitation.

"But my sister wants to tell you, you can't be proud. "Li Xiaoxiao said with a serious face.

When the girl heard this, she frowned in confusion, and the pride on her face gradually turned into confusion.

"Xiaoyun, Just being a recommended student in college is far from determining your future life. This is just the starting point of life, you know? So what you have to do at this time is not to be proud, but to study hard and ignore all the distracting thoughts around you. Those who scolded you in the past may now come back to praise you and praise you. You don't want these. Pay attention, because these are stumbling blocks on your way to growth. They will make you more and more proud, arrogant, and gradually lose yourself. "

"Sister, I understand, don't worry, I will definitely stick to my heart and won't be arrogant! "

The girl knew what Li Xiaoxiao wanted to express. She nodded very seriously and said.

"Well, no matter when the time comes, we must make one. People who are neither arrogant nor impetuous, when we are nothing, we must know that there is only one ourselves in the world. If we can't even look down on ourselves, who else can look down on ourselves? ”

“When we become successful, we must know that our existence is to contribute to this society and to contribute the knowledge we have learned to facilitate others. We are not great people, we are just He is just a person who serves others. Only in this way can he truly be neither arrogant nor impetuous and be a successful person! ”

After Li Xiaoxiao finished speaking, the three people also arrived at the door of Zhang Dayou’s house.

The girl did not open the door in a hurry, but held Li Xiaoxiao and Fang Zhiqiang tightly. hand.

She looked at Li Xiaoxiao seriously, and after pondering for a long time, she suddenly said in a sobbing tone: "Sister...Thank you for saying such words to me today, otherwise, I may never hear such words in my life..."

"Silly girl, brothers and sisters will always be your brothers. Sister, if anything happens in the future, just give us a call, we welcome you at any time! "

Li Xiaoxiao gently took the girl into his arms and said softly.

"Yeah! Don’t worry, I will definitely remember your words and never forget them for the rest of my life! "Xiaoyun snuggled into Li Xiaoxiao's arms and said word by word.

"Actually, brother and sister are still one thing. I want to discuss it with you. I don't know if you will agree. "Li Xiaoxiao gently touched the girl's head and continued.