"Does this make him more confident? How can he treat me calmly?" Li Xiaoxiao was a little confused.
“Let him succeed, let him have social status, and he will naturally grow taller and gain confidence. When he grows taller, he won’t need to look up to you. He is a very emotional person, You are so good to him, and he already has you in his heart. As long as he no longer has the burden in his heart and no resistance to you, and you care about him, he will definitely be with you, believe me."
"But how can I make him confident? I know what you mean, but I can't help it. You know his character. He is not willing to ask for my money, and he is even less willing to let me Introduce him to a good job."
"Have you noticed? There is a big difference between him before he opened the store and him now. He is better now than before he opened the store. My confidence is far less decadent than that time, don’t you think?" Wang Yaxin asked.
“Yes, I have discovered it too, yes.”
“Yes, this is the way to make him confident. You should pay more attention to his life and career. Support him. Men are different from us women. A man’s self-confidence comes from society’s recognition of him, while a woman’s self-confidence often comes from the recognition that she likes men. This is the biggest difference between men and women, and for a man He said that career is actually a very important thing, far more important than feelings. Xiaoxiao, if you really love him, then you should find more ways to help him. If he wants to open this store and he is very serious about it, then you can Help him more and support him more, let him make the store bigger, one store with two locations, a chain store, a chain company. You have to believe in him. He is actually a very capable man. No matter what he is, he is actually very good. , it’s just that his family and his personality have buried him. I believe that as long as you support him, he will be able to do it." Wang Yaxin said to Li Xiaoxiao.
"Do you want me to support him in continuing to open the store? I want to, but he won't ask for my money. In fact, it was me who played a trick this time and helped him. Open the store. I really won’t dare to do it next time. He will get angry if he doesn’t do anything right.”
“I didn’t ask you to give him money. He needs it more than money. It's your support for him, verbally and spiritually, not financially." Wang Yaxin said slowly.
Li Xiaoxiao was stunned, thinking carefully about Wang Yaxin's words, and finally nodded and said: "I know, but, sister Yaxin, why do you want to help me like this? Why do you want to match me up with her like this? ?I...I really don’t know how to thank you, I..."
"You asked a repeated question again." Wang Yaxin smiled, and then said: "Then I will Let me be honest with you, Xiaoxiao, I know why you are so confused. Indeed, women are very selfish when it comes to emotional matters. If it were replaced byI would never have said this to you before, because I wanted him to be my man, and I wanted him to stay as far away from you as possible. But it’s different now, it’s no longer possible for me and him. Although I love him, as I said before, he is not the man I want. "
Wang Yaxin paused here, and then said: "I am different from you. You are still young. You have too much time to wait for him to mature and grow up. I slowly became confident and strong, but I didn’t have time. I was already over thirty, how many years left for a woman to be good? By the time he really matures, maybe I will already be old. Moreover, he is a good man, but he is not a good husband. His heart is too big to just pretend to be the next woman in his family. Just like last time, he was about to marry me, but one phone call from you could make him confused, and he would run away to see you regardless of my feelings. Xiaoxiao, let me tell you the truth, if we switch things around, if we change places about what happened last time, maybe he will abandon you to see me without hesitation, because this is his character. I need a stable home, a man who can give me a sense of security. I am older and have such a big child. Stability is what I want most, and he cannot give me this sense of security. It doesn’t give me stability. Therefore, I am not suitable for him, it is impossible, and this has nothing to do with whether I love him or not. "
"But you are different, you are still young, you and he are the same age, and you have enough time to accompany him to grow up and mature slowly. Moreover, your personality is more compatible with him. You can love him blindly, and you can tolerate everything about him for the sake of love, but I can't do this. I can't do this. This is why I want you to be with him, because I love him, but I can't be with him, so I hope he can be happy. He is strong on the outside, but strong on the inside in some ways and weak in others. A very fragile man needs a woman who loves him to nourish him and care for him. I hope he can live a good life, and you are the woman who is most suitable for him. So, I hope you can have a good time with him. Xiaoxiao, it’s not that I am a person who does one thing on the outside but another secretly. I obviously promised you that I wanted you to be with him, but I ran to see him again. I don't actually want to do this, even though I miss him very much. "
"The reason is that Xiaoyu has a very good relationship with Fang Zhiqiang. I can't stop him from going to find his father. You know his true life experience. I can't bear it because it hurts him. It's too big, so please forgive me. I will try my best to avoid meeting him in the future. "Wang Yaxin said at the end, her eyes were a little moist.
"No, no, no, sister Yaxin, I definitely didn't mean this. "Li Xiaoxiao said quickly. She really doesn't have these thoughts. She is a very pure and simple girl, and she has almost no such thoughts in her heart.
"It doesn't matter what you do.Whether I mean it or not, I should do this. It’s good for you, me, and him. "Wang Yaxin smiled at Li Xiaoxiao, and then continued to eat.
Fang Zhiqiang was sitting in the store eating dinner with a group of children. He had no idea that the two women over there were actually there. Talking about his affairs, he also didn’t know that these two women would sit together for dinner. This was something he couldn’t even imagine.