"No, Miss Wang, listen to me, it's not like this. He doesn't like me. If he liked me, why would he marry you? He is cold to me now and hates me in his heart. Although I I'm very reluctant to say this, but I know very well in my heart that it's impossible for me to be with him. It's been impossible for a long time. Now I just ask him not to hate me." When Li Xiaoxiao said this, her eyes started to turn red again. , she is a girl who likes to cry.
"He has told me about you and him. You are not mature yet and may not have experienced that much, while he has a long reflex arc for emotional matters and is very dull. Man, you two are in a mess together. If he didn't love you, why would he abandon me and come back to see you? He believed such an obvious lie, which shows how nervous, how painful, and how miserable he was at that time Desperate. Do you know why you and him are not together?"
"Why?"
"First, because you are too good. Second, because Because you are too good to him." Wang Yaxin said lightly.
“Huh?”
“You yourself are very good, and your family background is equally good. He feels that he is not worthy of you. This is the big reason. He He is a very persistent person. Another point is that the last time your parents threatened you to separate from him, it was a big blow to him. It may be because of that incident that he insisted on keeping a distance from you because he didn’t want to It hurts you. The second reason, and the biggest reason, is because you are too good to him." Wang Yaxin continued.
"Miss Xiaoxiao, you are a very good girl. Although I have only met you a few times, I can see that you are a very kind girl and you are very kind to him. , you love him, so you do your best to be good to him, but do you know that it is precisely because you are so good to him that you put pressure on him. He is not like other men. He has a very strong self-esteem. Qiang, everything you did during this time seems to be good to him, but he is not happy. On the contrary, it makes him sad. He is a man, and he wants to prove the value of his existence. He wants to He relies on his own hands to create life, but you have arranged everything for him and given him everything. What do you want him to think? He will only feel that he is too useless and he will be sad. . Xiaoxiao, if you really love him, then what you have to do is not to arrange his life, but to care and support his life. He is a man, you have to give him freedom and don’t make decisions for him, so , no matter what you do, even if it is something you think is helpful to him, you should not do it. Leave everything to him. Let him arrange his own life and live the life he wants. All you have to do is to help him. Just support him and care about him, and be a woman who works silently behind his back."
"For a simple example, you help him secretly arrange work at your sister's place, just do this. That's wrong,You make him very passive, feel that he has been deceived, and that he has lost the value of his existence. If it were me, at that time, I would choose to accompany him to find a job silently, and I would also tell him directly that your sister's company has a vacancy, but he needs to apply for it, and then you accompany him to apply, and the result will be good. A lot, and he won't have that much pressure. Men are very strange animals, especially Fang Zhiqiang. Okay, Miss Xiaoxiao, I have finished what I need to say. I hope you can be happy with him. "Wang Yaxin said and finally smiled again.
Li Xiaoxiao was stunned, and finally said: "No, no, no, Miss Wang, I didn't come here today to say this. I came today to invite you. To help, I want to ask you to go over and take a look at him, comfort him, and even, the two of you should get back together. You know, he is feeling very uncomfortable right now, very uncomfortable. Only you can make him feel at ease. Really, please, just help me, okay? "
Wang Yaxin looked at Li Xiaoxiao with complicated eyes, and finally shook her head and said: "Xiaoxiao, you don't know him very well yet. He is not that fragile. He is much stronger than you think. He is He is a man whose heart is higher than the sky and feels that he can hold up the entire sky with his hands. How could such a man be defeated by such a small thing? Don't worry, his sadness is only temporary. In a few days, he will be full of energy. I don't have the ability to defeat him, and I don't think anyone can. You spend more time with him and care about him. I think your company at this time is far more effective than mine. And I... Xiaoxiao, I won’t say that I will definitely not be with him. If, if one day you are not with him, if one day he really matures and stabilizes, and knows what he wants. What, maybe, maybe I will fight for him again, so you have to hurry up. "Wang Yaxin suddenly paused at the end, changed the topic and said to Li Xiaoxiao with a smile, with a confident look.
"Think more about what I said, treating a man is actually no better than It’s easy to raise a child. Men are actually the same as children. Sometimes you have to follow him, instead of forcing him to change and make him follow you. It's getting late, so I won't keep you here, and I have to go practice piano with my child. "Wang Yaxin stood up and said.
Li Xiaoxiao still stood up a little numbly, nodded and said, "I'm sorry to bother you. ”
Then he walked out of Wang Yaxin’s house feeling a little dizzy and drove away in his car.
Wang Yaxin waited until Li Xiaoxiao left, then walked into her house alone. She locked the door of her bedroom and immediately heard sobbing coming from the room. The generosity, confidence and indifference she showed just now were all fake.
And Li Xiaoxiao Driving the car and walking slowly on the road, all she could think about was what Wang Yaxin said to her, thinking over and over again.
Fang Zhiqiang is still living his own life. Now he is numb to life. He still gets up at around four o'clock. He gets up and drives to the vegetable market and buys food. However, the food he buys is just that. There is only a small half of the carriage, because he only delivers food to those restaurants. The loss of the stall does not mean that he has completely lost his business, nor does it mean that he has nothing to do. The school has not started yet. When the school starts, he will still work as usual, although his income will be reduced a lot.