Peng Yuan never thought that she had used the wrong method, and she had always thought that her child was so rebellious and could not listen to good things. Instead, she often went against herself.
Thinking about the group of children in the Lu family, any one of them would be more well-behaved and sensible than her son.
"Sister Jiu, fortunately you are back, otherwise I would not even know what I did wrong. As you said, it is my first time raising a child and I have no experience. I just want to raise myself I teach my children what I think is good and right, but I never consider whether the children can accept it.”
So learn according to your son's head, and if he doesn't learn well, teach him a lesson.
Every time I keep saying it is good for the children, but what is the good thing about it?
"It's not too late for you to know now that raising children is also a science. I will talk to you about it in a while. In fact, children as old as Ke'er should mainly focus on having fun, not Always force him to learn something, otherwise it will be counterproductive."
Even a dog was still playing in the mud in his hometown in Changzhou at Peng Ke's age, but Peng Ke had already been taken care of by his parents. It is strange that children are forced to go to school so that they are willing to learn.
Peng Yuan took a deep breath and understood.
"I will tell my Lao Qin when I get back."
Jiang Jiuniang couldn't help but laugh, how long has it been since her name was changed from A Jian to Lao Qin.
"As long as you have a child like this, it is inevitable to be nervous about your child's education. You will understand when you take your time."
Everyone has a first time, but fortunately, it is still It's not a big mistake, just correct it in time.
The two started chatting about how to raise children. After finishing their work, Ms. Qin and others also joined the discussion. Talking about their own experiences in raising children, Peng Yuan seemed to have opened the door to a new world. Why didn't you think of asking a few more people before?
The women chatted about their children, the men drank and talked about the situation in the court. The whole Lu family laughed and laughed until very late at night before everyone went back to their respective homes.
Peng Ke had always hated the dog in his heart, and thought he would not like playing with the dog. Who knew that the dog led him to climb a tree and dig out bird eggs? His movements were fast and handsome, and in an instant he He was mesmerized.
It turns out that Brother Gouer learned martial arts to make it easier to pick out bird eggs, but that’s not what dad said!
If his father had told him this earlier, he would definitely get up early to learn martial arts, and he wouldn’t be able to just watch his brothers play under the tree now!
This little person, for the first time deep down in his heart, has such a strong desire to learn martial arts and become powerful, at least he can’t lose when he grabs the bird’s egg!
After playing with the dog all night, the little guy was already very sleepy when he went back, but he couldn't bear to sleep. He forced himself to stay awake and said to Peng Yuan: "Mother, I will get up to learn martial arts tomorrow morning. !"
Peng Yuan was very surprised. She decided not to let her son learn these things for the time being, and let him play for two years first.
Unexpectedly, my son, who has always been unwilling to work hard, actually took the initiative to learn martial arts.
Even Qin Jian, who had drunk too much, sobered up a bit when he heard this, and said in surprise: "Son, are you willing to learn?"
Peng Ke nodded. : "They can fly up the tree and dig out the eggs, but I can't climb up. I don't want to be the worst."
He clenched his little fists and was full of fighting spirit.
At this moment, Peng Yuan instantly understood why her sister and brother-in-law sent the prince to the Lu family to raise him. He was close to Zhu Zhechi. The children of the Lu family were all excellent. If they lived together, their advantages would naturally come to pass. It turns out that even children will have some concerns in their hearts and don't want to fall behind others, so they start to work hard.
This is much more effective than parents saying a thousand words and ten thousand words!
If this was normal, Peng Yuan would have been so happy that she would have accepted the first bite. However, after receiving the Buddhist scriptures at the Lu family tonight, she felt a little cautious. Not only did she not accept the offer, but she even said: : "I'll wait for my mother to ask you what Miss Jiu said tomorrow."
Asked: "How do you say it?"
Peng Yuan told Qin Jian what Jiang Jiuniang told her today.
Qin Jian was greatly shocked: "So, we have both taught you wrong in the past two years?"
Peng Yuan nodded bitterly and looked at Qin Jian holding him in his arms My son, I just feel particularly sorry for him.
"I asked why other people's sons are so well-behaved and sensible. My son is just like a debt collector. It turns out I didn't teach him well."
At this point, he He breathed a long sigh of relief and felt much more comfortable.
"It's very pitiful that this child follows us. Let's make up for it in the future."
The damage done before has been irreversible, so we can only make up for it as much as possible.
Peng Yuan nodded with red eyes, and said: "We don't know how to teach, so why not send them to the Lu family and grow up with the Lu family's children, and they will be fine no matter what."
The eldest prince came here in the same way. He lived with the dog for a while, and now he doesn't have to worry about his sister and brother-in-law.
"This is possible. I'll ask Bai Chuan tomorrow. I just don't know if my younger siblings have just come back and are free to help teach them."
We talked a lot during dinner tonight. They all knew that there was something strange going on in the island country, and there would be no peace for some time in the future. Jiang Jiuniang was probably busy too.
“Occasionally, I just have time to teach you a few words. Even if I don’t have time to teach, it’s still good to let Ke’er play with the dog more. Look at the effect tonight, it’s better than the two of us teaching this. It works for two years."
Qin Jian nodded repeatedly: "I think you are right."
The couple agreed to give birth to the baby early the next morning He took it out from under the quilt and sent it to the Lu family without stopping.
The dog had just come back and had to report to the Imperial College. There was no way to take him with him, so the little guy was arranged to play with Xiangxiang.
Xiangxiang wants to learn to walk recently, but Jiang Jiuniang thinks that she is too young and walking too early may not be good, so she still encourages her to crawl more.
When Peng Ke came, he saw Jiang Jiuniang guiding Xiangxiang to crawl on the blanket with a small toy.
This was the first time he saw such a cute little sister, a white, tender and round ball, grinning and crawling on her hands and knees.
Seeing him, Jiang Jiuniang waved to him and motioned for him to come over.
Peng Ke walked over a little nervously. Jiang Jiu Niang handed him the rattle in her hand and asked warmly: "Can Ke'er help aunt take care of her sister for a while? Just guide her to crawl more. Okay."
He nodded and solemnly said: "Okay."
Although he was young, he also knew that his parents' good attitude towards him this morning was all because of This girl Jiuniang spoke for him last night.
For the first time, his parents solemnly said sorry to him and said that they would never treat him like they did before.
He likes Aunt Jiu Niang and also likes his little sister.
He stood in front of Xiangxiang with a rattle, shook it, and said a little unfamiliarly: "Sister, come here."
When Jiang Jiuniang saw him standing up, He immediately got up and ran away.
The family that You Yatou was going to have a blind date with came to visit today. She didn’t know what the situation was, so she had to go and have a look.