In the past, I saw that these children of the Lu family were really fond of them, so I expected that one of my own children would be so well-behaved and sensible.

Her expectations were so high that when she found out that she had given birth to a little devil, she felt like the sky was about to collapse.

In the past two years, they have been trying to correct their son's temper while he is still young, otherwise it will be more difficult to discipline him when he grows up, so the couple put a lot of thought into it.

But the beatings and scoldings had little effect. The child even became more rebellious and was about to become enemies with them.

"I don't care, I just hate him and you!"

Peng Ke shouted loudly, his eye circles instantly turning red.

It’s all the dog’s fault. His parents have forced him to learn from him since he was a child. Everything is the dog’s fault.

Peng Yuan was so angry that she raised her hand and wanted to hit someone. She didn’t know who this child’s temper was. It was okay to be noisy at home, but when she came to Lu’s house to play, she still didn’t know how to restrain herself. The old mother was heartbroken. My heart is broken.

"Don't hit the child, Yuanyuan, what are you doing!"

Jiang Jiuniang saw that Peng Yuan was not joking, and saw that the slap was about to fall, so she hurriedly pulled the child away Into his arms to protect.

Peng Yuan used to be such a gentle girl, how come she turned into a tigress after not seeing her for more than two years?

"Sister Jiu, I only have one child, and I can't bear to beat him. But because I only have one child, I'm afraid that he will learn bad things, so I can only discipline him ruthlessly. This child He has been disobedient to discipline since he was a child. I'm really afraid that his temper will cause trouble when he grows up."

What mother doesn't love her child? Every time she hits her son, it hurts in her heart, but there are many loving mothers. Bai'er, she knows this truth very well, so no matter how reluctant she is, she will still discipline her when it's time to discipline her.

Jiang Jiu Niang saw her look like she hated iron for not becoming steel, and then looked at little Peng Ke with red eyes and bulging eyes in her arms. She sighed helplessly and said, "But your method is wrong. Not only can the child not be well managed, but he will also deliberately go against you. Why bother?"

"I ask you, have you ever used a dog with him since he was very young? To make a comparison, let him imitate a dog, and require him to be proficient in both civil and military arts?"

Peng Yuan was stunned, how did she know?

As soon as Jiang Jiuniang saw her expression, she knew that she had guessed correctly, and said earnestly: "Yuanyuan, this is wrong of you. How can anyone grow up according to other people's lives from birth? He He is an independent individual with his own ideas, but you let him do everything the dog does. Would you like it if it were you?"

"He obviously didn't do anything, just Don’t want to be like a dog, you guys?Just hit him, it would be abnormal if he doesn't resist. ”

“When I raised a dog, I didn’t ask him to learn from anyone. I trained him according to his own conditions and advantages, and according to his preferences. He has grown into what he is now. First of all, he He experienced hardships when he was a child, and his mind is more mature than that of ordinary children. Secondly, it is due to the influence of his father, and thirdly, he clearly understands what he wants, so he works hard for it. "

"But Ke'er is not like that. He also has his own ideas and preferences. You should respect his ideas instead of copying everything about the dog and giving it to him. Just like other children in the Lu family, we do not require every child to be like a dog. They can do whatever they like. Respecting the children's wishes will save you worries and the children will be happy. Why not? Woolen cloth? ”

What’s even more outrageous is that Peng Ke is already forced to learn so many things when he is less than three years old this year. Peng Yuan and his wife are really going too far.

Even if Because there is only one child, the couple hopes that the child will become a success, and they should not force one child like this.

Come out.

He knew that this was the dog’s mother, and he thought that the dog’s mother would show off the dog’s good qualities to his own mother, and let him learn from the dog, and even learn how to do it. He encouraged his mother to beat him, but she didn't, and even advised his mother not to force him so much.

In so many years, Jiang Jiuniang was the first person to speak for him.

I am full of grievances, but today, someone finally understands.

Ever since he could walk and talk, he was forced by his parents to read, learn calligraphy and martial arts. If he did not do well, he would be beaten and praised. How great his son is, how inferior he is to belittle him.

He once wanted to study hard and make his parents happy, but he found that no matter what he did, his parents were not satisfied, so he became discouraged and began to He became rebellious, and then his parents beat him even more fiercely.

Peng Yuan looked at her son who was crying in Jiang Jiuniang's arms, and felt as if something was blocking her heart. It was the first time she had raised him. She didn't know the right way to raise a child. She only knew that the little prince from her sister's family had to be sent to the Lu family to learn from Gou'er, so she felt that it must be right, so she always asked her children to follow Gou'er's standards. Unexpectedly, not only was there no progress at all, but she also raised her son to be like an enemy.

It turned out that she was wrong.

I remembered that I had always thought of a loving mother but a failed son. , she cannot spoil her children, and she is so cruel every time she spanks her children, she blames herself so much that she wants to cry. It is obviously their fault as parents, but they still blame their children. They are really not worthy of being parents.
< br />　"Okay, okay, don't cry, my aunt taught your mother a lesson, she knows she was wrong,I won’t treat you like this again, and it will cost me my face to cry again. "

Jiang Jiu Niang took out a handkerchief to wipe Peng Ke's tears. She still felt distressed when she saw such a young child.

"Gou'er, take Ke'er's brother to play with his sister. . ”

She called the dog and personally handed Peng Ke over to the dog.

The dog was not far away just now and heard about Peng Ke. Most of the time, I sympathized with this younger brother, so I didn’t refuse, and took the initiative to say to him: “Let’s go, brother will take you to play. ”

Peng Ke originally hated the dog, but now that the dog’s mother spoke for him and the dog wanted to take him to play, he couldn’t hate it anymore and wiped his tears to watch. He didn't even look at his mother and just followed the dog away.

Peng Yuan's heart was like a knife, her son completely hated her.

"Sister Jiu ,What should I do? I just want him to learn well and fear that he will learn badly, so I am so strict. ”

Peng Yuan sighed. She had come to Lu’s house happily to play, but now she was no longer in a good mood. How on earth could she save her precarious relationship between mother and child?
< br />　“It’s good to want him to learn well, but the key is to learn well, not to follow a dog’s example. All good things can be learned, not everything must be learned from a dog. Although he is young, if you look at his aggrieved look just now, it shows that he is sensible in his heart. You can go back and discuss it with Brother Qin, apologize to the child, and teach him again. ”

Jiang Jiuniang never thought that these two people would teach their children to such extremes. Fortunately, she came back early, and it was still too late to correct it. If it had been a few years later, it would not have been so easy. .