"But the problem is, I don't dare. Because I don't know if I can be happy with him. What I'm even more afraid of is that he won't be happy with me. First of all, you should also know my family situation. , I have a son who is over five years old. Although Zhiqiang and I are both unmarried, I am going to get married to Zhiqiang. In fact, this family can only be regarded as a combined family. Can a combined family be happy? Moreover, people outside think about me There are a lot of rumors. In addition, people in the world always have a lot of misunderstandings about a woman who gets pregnant out of wedlock. How can he not care about such a situation? Secondly, there is an age gap between him and me. I am older than him. I have to be several years older. Of course, the age difference may not be a big problem, but as you can see, I am more mature than him. There will still be some differences in personality between the two parties. I'm afraid, if I really want to live When we are together, we will have a lot of friction. Will we be happy then? Before, I didn't have a sense of security. You know where the insecurity comes from. Or was it you who persuaded him to do this? I admit, what he did recently These decisions really touched me and made me feel more at ease. But, Liu Yan, when it came time to decide whether to get married, many things and factors troubled me. I couldn't make up my mind, and I couldn't give myself an answer. .Can you tell me the answer?" Wang Yaxin asked Liu Yan.

"I'm afraid that if I decide to get married on impulse, we won't be happy after getting married. The main reason is that he is unhappy." Wang Yaxin continued.

Liu Yan looked at Wang Yaxin and said after a long time: "Sister Wang, do you know that there is a psychological disease called premarital phobia?"

"Premarital phobia?" Wang Yaxin I was stunned for a moment, I didn’t expect Liu Yan to talk about this.

"If you are not allowed to marry Qiangzi, and the two of you are just allowed to be boyfriend and girlfriend, will you have so many worries? If you think about it carefully, as far as I know I know, you and Qiangzi got along as boyfriend and girlfriend for a period of time before. Did you have so many worries during that time? No? This shows that what is difficult for you is not the relationship between the two of you. What bothers you about these things is actually the marriage certificate, or marriage. It’s not that you don’t have confidence in Qiangzi, but what you are unsure about is actually about relationships and marriage. If I guessed correctly, you must have been in relationships before. You may have been hurt in marriage, so you are afraid of marriage. I think this is related to the failure of your last relationship with the father of your child, and also to the last time the strong son abandoned you before marriage and ran away. In fact, You said that your uncertainty is more about your own psychology and your psychological barriers. It has nothing to do with some minor problems that exist between you two in reality. In fact, these problems you mentioned are not at all. Factors that affect your marriage."

When Wang Yaxin heard Liu Yan's words, she was stunned and couldn't speak for a long time. She was a little shocked because she had never thought of it this way. Perhaps, this is the so-called fanaticism of the authoritiesLet the bystanders know.

"Sister Wang, there is no problem between you two that you cannot be together. The only problem is your own psychological barrier, which is your doubt and fear about marriage. Sister Wang , I think it would be too unfair to Qiangzi if you were always like this. He is devoted to you now, his whole heart is on you, waiting for your answer. And you, But I never gave him a clear answer and kept him waiting and suffering indefinitely. I think this is unfair to him. What do you think?" Liu Yan said again, she still said it Very straight forward and doesn't mince words at all.

Wang Yaxin lowered her head, nodded finally, and said: "Yes, it is indeed my business. I asked him to wait for a reply from me, and it has been delayed for more than a month, but But I still didn't give him an answer."

"Sister Wang, let me tell the truth. I think you should overcome your psychological barriers and hold hands with Hadron. People, sometimes they are too rational. It will appear timid. In life, we need reason, but when it comes to emotions, I think reason is a very weak thing. Emotion is an emotion, and it should be emotional. If you are so rational when dealing with emotions, then Why do we need feelings? What’s the point of feelings?" Liu Yan said.

Wang Yaxin looked at Liu Yan blankly. Liu Yan's words shocked her greatly. She had never thought of many things before. Just like Liu Yan said, emotion is a kind of feeling, it is a perceptual situation. If you treat emotional matters so rationally, why do you need emotions? Wang Yaxin seemed to finally know that the reason why she was always so entangled and troubled when she was with Fang Zhiqiang was because she was too rational. When it comes to relationships, you should just follow your feelings regardless of your own safety.

After listening to Liu Yan’s words, she seemed to suddenly feel like she was able to see the sun through the clouds, and her mood suddenly became more open-minded.

"Liu Yan, thank you." Wang Yaxin looked at Liu Yan and said with a smile.

"Hey, why are you thanking me? I'm just talking nonsense. I just really hope that you two can be happy. Seeing you two like this now, I'm very anxious. Mainly, you and Qiangzi When you get married, it will be your turn to take care of him. Unlike now, it's like I am his wife. I am here to take care of him every day. Look, I am responsible for the food and drink, including the sanitation of his upstairs. I am working for you and taking care of him for you." Liu Yan said with a smile.

Wang Yaxin also laughed.

"What are you two talking about? You are laughing so happily." At this time, Fang Zhiqiang walked in carrying a cake and several bottles of red wine.

"It's nothing, I didn't talk about you anyway." Liu Yandao.

　“II don’t believe it. I can tell from the obscene laughter of the two of you. You are definitely talking bad about me and saying embarrassing things about me. "Fang Zhiqiang said while opening the red wine.

Wang Yaxin took apart the cake and put in the candles. Liu Yan took a lighter from Fang Zhiqiang and lit the candles.

/>　“Zhiqiang, make a wish. "Wang Yaxin said to Fang Zhiqiang.

Fang Zhiqiang smiled, closed his eyes and prepared to make a wish.

"Open your eyes, you must say it. "Liu Yan coaxed.

"How can anyone make a wish and say it out loud? It won’t work if you say it. "Fang Zhiqiang glared at Liu Yan.

"Who said it won't work if you say it out? You have to say it out before others will know. " Liu Yan blinked at Fang Zhiqiang as she spoke.

Liu Yan meant that Fang Zhiqiang should take advantage of this opportunity to make a wish to propose to Wang Yaxin. She had just helped Fang Zhiqiang make the preliminary preparations. All the work and preparations were done. But Fang Zhiqiang obviously did not understand Liu Yan’s good intentions, but gave Liu Yan a blank look.